My parents found out I crossdress

So I always do my laundry on Sundays, and lately I’ve been doing two loads (one with my pants and hoodie, and the other with everything else). Well I didn’t know my dad needed to do laundry too, and he ended up putting my everything else load into the dryer before I got the chance, seeing all of the women’s clothes I wore that week. When I did eventually come downstairs to finish my laundry he told me he already put my clothes in the dryer but didn’t say anything else. I knew he had to have seen them, but I hoped he didn’t. Flash forward, my mom comes home from visiting her grandmother and my dad tells her what he saw. She comes up to my room to talk to me about it, asking why I had those clothes. I told her I didn’t want to talk about it, and she told me that her and my dad would love and support me no matter what.

I mostly just stayed in my room the next day, only coming out when I absolutely needed to.

Today though, my dad picked me up from school and took me to lunch, which was my worst nightmare because I knew he was going to want to talk to me about what happened. Sure enough, on the drive home he confronted me about it and I couldn’t just get out of it by saying ‘I don’t want to talk about it’. I ended up having to tell him that I just enjoy wearing women’s clothing, but I assured him that I was doing fine and that there was nothing else going on. He told me the same things my mom told me, adding on that I’m not in trouble in any way and that I shouldn’t feel embarrassed about it. We got home and hugged it out afterwards.

All things considered, it went pretty well given I had no control over how they found out. I just can’t help but feel like things are gonna be different between me and them from now, even if it’s only a little bit, and that worries me. I’m sure it’s gonna be a great time when/if they find out I’m pansexual too. Anyway, sorry this was such a long post, I just wanted to talk about this to people who could probably relate in someway at least a little bit. Thanks for listening.

So I always do my laundry on Sundays, and lately I’ve been doing two loads (one with my pants and hoodie, and the other with everything else). Well I didn’t know my dad needed to do laundry too, and he ended up putting my everything else load into the dryer before I got the chance, seeing all of the women’s clothes I wore that week. When I did eventually come downstairs to finish my laundry he told me he already put my clothes in the dryer but didn’t say anything else. I knew he had to have seen them, but I hoped he didn’t. Flash forward, my mom comes home from visiting her grandmother and my dad tells her what he saw. She comes up to my room to talk to me about it, asking why I had those clothes. I told her I didn’t want to talk about it, and she told me that her and my dad would love and support me no matter what.

I mostly just stayed in my room the next day, only coming out when I absolutely needed to.

Today though, my dad picked me up from school and took me to lunch, which was my worst nightmare because I knew he was going to want to talk to me about what happened. Sure enough, on the drive home he confronted me about it and I couldn’t just get out of it by saying ‘I don’t want to talk about it’. I ended up having to tell him that I just enjoy wearing women’s clothing, but I assured him that I was doing fine and that there was nothing else going on. He told me the same things my mom told me, adding on that I’m not in trouble in any way and that I shouldn’t feel embarrassed about it. We got home and hugged it out afterwards.

All things considered, it went pretty well given I had no control over how they found out. I just can’t help but feel like things are gonna be different between me and them from now, even if it’s only a little bit, and that worries me. I’m sure it’s gonna be a great time when/if they find out I’m pansexual too. Anyway, sorry this was such a long post, I just wanted to talk about this to people who could probably relate in someway at least a little bit. Thanks for listening.