Beta spray hate

What's the deal with beta spray hate? I'm a n00b climber (~3 months in), and personally I love getting beta from people. I'm wondering if this is because I'm a n00b and I'm more curious about my physical limits or ability to execute certain moves. But in my mind, bouldering is like learning a new language, and not having a vocabulary of moves/technique to begin with, is like asking me to speak without words.

That said, I could see that over time, and with some more experience, that I could grow to love the problem solving aspect of it though.

Is that all it is? or is it a personality trait difference?