Why Do Black Parents Normalize Child Abuse?

Really, if it’s not SA then anything goes. The amount of verbal and physical abuse I’ve went through it’s completely justified in my family’s eyes. Your family still claims to love even though they treat you with no respect. But if you stand up for yourself you’re called disrespectful and ungrateful. My mother even used the excuse that she was “21 year old girl who was still figuring things out”. She’s now 43, her behavior has NOT CHANGED.

We all know if we treated our parents how they treated us they’d probably beat us so bad that we’d suffer grave consequences. The best option is no contact once you can afford it🤷🏾‍♂️💯