Need help navigating the Bethesda area for our family

Hi all, I’ve done some searching on this sub and found some good information. But I’m hoping to hear from locals directly as well on our situation —

We are moving to the area in August. Husband will be working in Rockville 5 days a week. I’ll be working in Georgetown 2 days a week, from home 3 days.

We have two young kids, age 3 and 1. Looking for daycares in the area.

My question is, where would you aim to live if you were in our situation? Bethesda seems like the halfway point.

In general we like to go out to eat, take walks, go to playgrounds. We would need a 3 bedroom place with small backyard. Around $4500/month rent.

Thanks so much.