Advice needed badly!

Okay so basically:

3 roommates, roommate A, B, and me! All renting under a random landlord, however, roommate A has lived here probably a year-year and a half prior to us, and roommate B and I both moved in at the same time. Roommate B has the master bedroom/own bathroom and also pays more than Roommate A and I (who pay the same and share the same bathroom.) Roommate B is pretty irrelevant and chill, nothin to say about her.

However, Roommate A is CONSTANTLY on my nerves and I know a lot of the things I am upset over I shouldn’t be, but when it all adds up idk I’m at my Witt’s end 😭😭 need advice LOL!

She is very organized and clean, and I am not. However, I keep my mess to my room and am super anal about the shared spaces (because if I leave anything out for more than 2 seconds, she moves it.) I remember one time I finally had to send a text about it because I had a chapstick on a dresser in the living room and she moved it to the corner of the coffee table as a sign to take it to my room. It’s SO frustrating because she has lived here longer/before, 90% of the apartment is her stuff, I don’t mind most of it because it’s less moving out I’d have to do later, but when I have SUCH a small amount of space compared to her and we are paying the same price to some random landlord she is not associated to, its frustrating that I can’t leave a damn chapstick out. She does this constantly , and what’s making me write this is I just came home and she unloaded the dishwasher full of my dishes completely and put them all on the counter for me to put away, and I look in the dishwasher- SHE DIDNT EVEN PUT ANYTHING ELSE IN! Like girl I was at work sorry they finished before I got home!

She also automatically assumes she is invited to all of my friends plans (she used to be coworkers with one of my friends in highschool), but if I come home and she has a friend over she just pretends like I don’t exist. (Which I honestly don’t mind cuz I hate small talk but it’s just the double standard.) There was one time I told her specifically that she wasn’t invited (cuz we were pregaming at our place) because it was my friends birthday and he wanted to keep it small, and was really nice and explained it all in a text, and when I came home she was talking about what we were doing that night and I had to be like umm you misinterpreted my text.

Not only that…. But she makes me friends uncomfortable. She has no filter particularly when it comes to relationships/53xual stuff and crosses the line all the time. Honestly to me as well, and I just don’t know what to do.

This one is a personal problem I know, but I am an avid Limoncello La Croix Drinker. I have like 5 a day. I know I have an individuality complex and I am working on it, but she all of a sudden started drinking them too. I even asked her, “have you ever tried literally any other flavor?” And she said no. I also made a cross out of one of the boxes for wall decor lol AND SHE ASKED ME TO MAKE HER ONE! It’s like girl first of all, ???? Second of all, it’s literally cutting a t out of the box. I’ve also been using a VERY specific colored and style of bag for my backpack/everywhere bag for as long as I’ve lived here, and just last week she bought the same one. What’s honestly most annoying about that is she left it out (would kill me if I did that) and I keep going to grab it thinking it’s mine.

She also just will ask for advice and I give it to her and then she will tell me I’m wrong then a few days later come to that conclusion herself. Most recently, she was sick and I told her I have emergen-c if she wanted any. She said that is pointless, and today she had some crazy juice and I asked what it was and she said it was some vitamin c drink to help her. I said “hmm, that’s why I told you I had emergen-c the other day.” And then she was like “oh I’ll have to look into it then.”

I honestly just don’t know what to do/say because I know a lot of it is me being un rationally upset, but I seriously just keep getting so frustrated and I feel like she is just on some high horse. I would love any help on what I should actually communicate to her/maybe how