Finding gay parties

Basically the title. I want to go to more gay events, but not really sure how to tell which ones are gay or not unless they are pretty explicit about it LOL or are at a gay bar. Like I know (from this subreddit) that Wrecked, Fist, etc. at Basement are all gay events, but how would I have known that otherwise? Is it just an “if you know you know” type of thing? Also, would love any recs you guys have! (and specifically if you know of any events on Feb 15th bc my bf will be in town that weekend)

Edit: Wrecked -> Wicked typo 😅