The beef between Virgo and Aries women?

I’m a Virgo sun (cap ⬆️ aqua 🌕) and wanted to know the if Aries women and Virgo women tend to bump heads a lot or if they’re actually compatible and I’ve just had bad luck with the Aries women I’ve met. Ive heard conflicting things, mainly that we don’t understand eachother or we understand eachother too well and that’s where the beef comes.