There’s a big difference between being feminine and being flamboyant

What I mean is, having feminine energy is not the same or is not synonymous as flamboyant. Being flamboyant just means your very attention grabbing, showy, more outward with your expression, sometimes ridiculous and over the top, so just because a guy wears a bright hot-pink suit with a feather boa and heels, he may try to put on a feminine persona or alter ego, but that’s not what feminine energy is. Feminine energy is more internal and personal (like masculine energy) , meaning if your an empathetic person, who listens to others attentively and caring, has nurturing side, wants to take care of others, a little timid. All of which traits most of us carry, sometimes they overlap and conflate, but we have to distinguish the two if we want to have better filter on who we want as partners!