Apologizing is bad

Psychology websites always get this wrong. If you hurt someone or do something dirty. It is not good to apologize most of the time! You are responsible for dealing with the guilt. The way you do this is by accepting your shady side. By accepting you are a bad person you start to become a good person. Forgiveness usually won't help with the guilt. It is selfish and does not help the other person. This is coming from someone who just over apologized. Even if I apologized once it still wouldn't be good.