Brahmin bondhas answer me this!!

I have seen enough inter caste marriages of our community of both girls and boys. But I observed something weird in our MEN. Whether it's my cousin bro, distant relative cousin bro, my friend sister who loved a guy of our clan but broke up due to pressure from girls side. My other cousin who is central govt employee and doing well loved a girl. both the families tortured them and she married other guy but my cousin is still unmarried who still loves that girl at 35 years thinking of her(devadasu ayyadu ayya okka gani okka koduku😓). My sister's office manager is in live in relationship with a girl and even his younger brother got married first cuz he loved a girl. Even recently my other sister cousin got match but they rejected cuz the boy's mother is other caste and she wanted non veg but my cousin can't cook so cancelled tht match. Even recently another guy who's is very silent and seems like ramanujan got placed at Dr Reddy's in vizag revealed he loved a girl and girls parents said okay!! Both got posting even in same office! Bro was planning everything from the start ☠️ what's shocking is both are just 23 ☠️☠️☠️

WHAT FUCKS MY MIND IS THAT, ALL THESE GIRLS ARE KAPUS !!!

I know I sound shit but I am just curious at this point and blows my mind. How come all these girls are from same clan?? Is it just pure coincidence??? What am I missing🏃

Both Brahmins and kapus please answer whoever is it is. I am just curious that's it