bf is a gamer and his time allotment is getting to me

Problem/Goal: bf is a gamer and his time allotment is getting to me

Context: we are both adults and are dating for more than 2 years now. he would spend the day with me during weekdays and the night playing his games all week because we don’t live together. during weekends or holidays that we don’t see each other, i wanted us to play together or converse but he would always say that its a boys day/night. i find it odd because he would play with them every night, though. is this normal?

Previous Attempts: brought this up more than thrice last year and no changes pa rin

Additional: he is currently sick with fever and with a migraine but i saw his status on discord activity as playing in steam, so i confronted him about it and he suddenly went offline on all online/media platforms that i know he has an account on. can u game and be sick at the same time? i saw that he played rimworld

Edited to add: he has a habit of ghosting people too

Final edit: thank you everyone for the numerous perspectives. i have weighted the possibilities and consequences. i truly appreciate each of you for having the time to share what you think/feel towards my situation. have a good day !