I keep getting blamed for abuse

Ive been with my ex on and off for a year now I am positive that it is the worst year of my life He abused me in every way possible I no longer have friends I had no one He took my phone away , called me a who*e most of the time I was always accused of cheating Most of my community blamed me for getting back abd blamed me for not standing up for myself I left now but i am frustrated with everyone around me