Is it worth bargaining with people?

I’ve been feeling abandoned by friends who mask inconsistently, aren’t honest about the precautions they take, and downplay the dangers of COVID to me, their disabled and immunocompromised friend. I’ve been considering telling them I’m not comfortable seeing them unless they take precautionary measures. These are also friends who claim to be leftist, who I’ve discussed DJ principles with as they relate to the importance of masking for the safety of ourselves and our disabled comrades/connecting the dots between DJ principles and anti-imperialism, etc. And still! They’re at the bar, eating indoors, going to shows unmasked. Is it even worth it to try this distancing technique to get them to change or do I cut them off completely?