What does that make me?

Let's say, for the sake of this hypothetical situation, that there is a woman who fell deeply in love with me. She tries her best to show me, make me feel appreciated, giving me her time, energy, attention, effort, does things for me, buys me gifts for no reason other than to make me smile.

Now, let's say that I act like this woman doesn't exist. Let's say I ignore her every attempt to form any sort of relationship with me, while I simultaneously urge her to try more, to do more, to be more. Let's say I tell her that she has to accept me with all of my unresolved trauma and the toxic behavior that goes along with - while also calling her a snowflake if my toxic shitty behavior triggers any past trauma she might have.

Let's also say that I make fun of her for trying and for showing love and kindness to me - all for the entertainment of my friends.

What kind of person does that make me?