I Didn't Realise I Was Trapped in an Abusive Narcissistic Relationship Until It Was Over

For over a year, I poured everything I had into my relationship-guiding, loving, and caring for my ex in every possible way. I supported her emotionally, mentally, psychologically, and even financially. She always seemed to have a problem in life, and I felt deeply empathetic toward her struggles and her past. I made countless excuses for the awful ways she treated me, forgiving her every time. When she split or lashed out, I was told it wasn't really "her" and that I shouldn't take it personally. And I believed her. Looking back, I now see how trapped I was-how my kindness and empathy were used against me. There's so much to say, so many aspects of this relationship to unpack. This is my first post, and I hope that by sharing my experience, I can help someone else-whether you're questioning your situation, seeking validation, or working through the pain of healing. Ask me anything. I'm here to help however I can.