It's honestly sickening how sexually immoral and fragile dating and marriage is today (vent).

It legit hurts my heart when people (even if they're joking) proudly say they want certain degenerate traits in their partners or want to be a degenerate to their partner. Or how cheating should be normalized. Or how certain behaviors are classified as normal in marriage. Just, bad stuff.

Like, what happened to wanting a normal, peaceful, Godly relationship? Why people say having a nice relationship is boring? Why?!?!

Don't they know the harm they will cause to themselves? How fragile their relationship is? What if they have kids? How would they feel about their parent? How will they feel when they hear mom and dad arguing for the 5th time of the day?

Maybe I have unrealistic expectations, but I just want a peaceful marriage with my future wife. No degenerate attractions to each other. No arguments and fights. No disliking each other. I just want love,comfort, peace, someone to mourn together, someone to walk with God together, someone to enjoy life together, forever and forever. When we have kids, they know we love each other and they never have to worry about us arguing. They can grow with Christ peacefully and safety in our home. Is it that hard to ask? Is it that hard to achieve? Why can't people follow this guideline?!?!

There's no one to blame but us for peverting God's ideal marriage. Both genders, all races, all ideologies, everyone. There isn't any reason to blame!!!

We all need to fix our standards. Cause I don't just want a sexual, peverted relationship, I want true love!!! And I shouldn't be the few people to openly admit this desire. Everyone should ought to!!!

Edit: To clarify, I'm still want a sexual relationship with my wife, I just don't want it to be perverted or be the only relationship I have with her.

When I mean degenerate/perverted, I mean things that go against God's design for sex in marriage. Like weird fantasies.