Is it wrong ?

I hosted an event and said no to a girl taking home food bc she takes a lot for her and her husband, and does not leave a lot for me and mine. My husband asked me beforehand to decline her ask.

The way she asked was “where r ur containers so I can take this home, I’ll wash them and give it back” , When I hadn’t offered any of it and hadn’t mentioned it. She is also an acquaintance. When offered instead she declined other sides, except for one from another girl to which she said “ I know I can always count on you other girl, not to be rude host…but..”

To which I apologized and mentioned the other sides. I also said, if it’s a food issue/struggle, please tell me, and then of course yes please take it. Her response was “no it’s not, I’m just greedy” and the other friend said really? And she said yea I have all the ingredients at home to make this except 1 and felt lazy.

But it made me feel bad even though it honored my husband. I felt bullied but also like I did something wrong. Did I not take care of the poor by saying no? She and her husband work and have an apt and food, but they do make less than my household. I just don’t want to be walked over and ppl being entitled. Was it wrong though to say no? Idk why I feel guilty or something about it… thoughts ???