Matrimony rant

I am 30M currently working in Bangalore for a reputed product based MNC and earning 22lpa+. I am born and brought up in mysore, KA. I belong to upper middle class family with a good financial background with own home. Coming to family background, my father is retired central govt employee, mom is homemaker and brother is married.I am good looking and having a good physique too(I hit gym often). I belong to a specific Tamil community and not particular about caste. It’s been 2 years I have started my search and have created profiles in Shaadi, Bharathmatrimony, community matrimony, jeevansathi and tried searching through brokers as well. Recently I have started reaching out to my friends for help to find a partner. I am confused whether putting “caste no bar” is affecting me or searching through wrong channels.

The whole process has been exhausting and I have spoken to only 5 girls so far and unfortunately it didn’t work out with any of them. I am looking for a Kannada or Tamil speaking girl who wants to settle down in Bangalore or mysore. I am not particular about caste as well and prefer a person who is okay with me being non vegetarian. I am in general liberal, easy going person and not rigid about finding a partner in my community, it’s been very hard. When I say liberal, my entire family is broad minded and moderately religious. I am not desperate but I believe it is worth putting effort to find the right person since you will have to live with them for rest of the life. If anyone can help me how to navigate through this situation and any advice on how/where to find a potential match would be appreciated. Thanks