Is my bluetooth connected?

I know, I know "googe it" but an hour has been inconclusive.

I can't find my slim pen 1. I tried with two other people's pens, connected just fine and they left so now its just me and my pen that *might* be nearby. It shows the green dot for connected, but unlike the other two never said "connected" like my blutooth mouse. I just took my laptop and a different bag and jacket down the street and it still shows as connected. Is there a way to refresh its status manually so I can pop my bubble of hope?

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