am i playing too slowly?

i’m on spring of year 2 and i just got a big barn, i still have a small coop. I’ve reached level 95 in the mines and i haven’t completed the community centre although i’m almost done. i’ve reached almost 10 hearts and gifted boquets to all the singles in town because i wanted to experience each of their cut scenes. i’ve only now started using kegs and still don’t have cloth or a mill. I feel like i’ve wasted so much time and i don’t know where it went. I did have fun playing though so i don’t regret it. i don’t have pigs or sheep yet because i was so focused on farming, fish in and mining i forgot about my animals