Dating is not for nice people anywhere in India. You need to be toxic to date people and not have any expectations. M30 Rant
Met an amazing lady on a dating app. For 2 months we spoke extensively and met up a couple of times as well, had great chemistry and one day she suddenly stopped talking to me saying she had some stuff going on in her life and was not ready to date. The very next day I found her on Bumble, lol.
I never love-bombed her, behaved decently and gave her the space she needed.
There is no place for niceties in the dating world. Even the most well-behaved, red-flag-free women end up chasing other red-flag people. No matter how well you behave with people they will find a way to cause disappointment and break every inch of trust you have. It's not my first rodeo on dating apps and have met tons of women recently who all ended up ghosting me.
I have always been the nice guy in a relationship which ended up backfiring on my face. Women of reddit - what is it do you want from a guy? Do you not want to date nice people? What are you exactly looking for?