I 27M can't believe I call them friends

My friends are misogynistic assholes... Everyone lives/lived like a fucking rat in front of their girlfriends like with zero self respect. And as I never had a proper girlfriend (I had some casual relationship for like physical intimacy, emotional support, but I never got disrespectful neither the girls were for me. I was just straight forward about my approach as I use to escalate things step by step and proper consent. I never ever mentioned marriage I kept it clear from 1 day)

But for me marriage and love are very sacred things. And I would never disrespect any girl who is leaving her house and coming to home as my wife.

And now as we guys are approaching the age of marriage they want their wife to be their fucking slave and are saying that girls need to be kept like that. And if she will not behave properly they will ask their parents to talk to their wives parents (They are moving ahead with traditional Indian Arranged marriage system as their girlfriends broke off with them)

I am feeling very uncomfortable, as these baldies(my friends are getting bald) are talking about how they are going to keep a control over their wife and will make her work like a slave.

I have meet girls who deserves this treatment (their girlfriends deserved this) but I feel bad for the good souls who are going to marry them.

Edit1- Guys I don't want anyone to be disrespected, I just want everyone to be in a healthy relationship. The girls who deserves this treatment is just for the asshole girls who are using the tactics to torture the good family/people and harras them like it happened in the case of Atul subhash.