Dating a pilot

As the title suggests, I’m not a pilot wife. But I’m currently dating a pilot. We first met in October last year and we’ve seen each other 7 times since and it’s been really great so far. We spent New Year’s Day together. I feel like we can build something really meaningful.

On the other hand, it’s really hard to see him consistently. Even when he doesn’t operate ultra long haul flights, it still takes him a day and a half to recover. I’ve been told by friends that I’ll need to take it really slow with him and not try to label the relationship so soon. When he’s outstation, the time differences make it hard to have a consistent chat, but when we meet we catch each other up a lot.

I guess what I’m seeking is experiences from pilot spouses out there, whether you’re dating or married. How do you navigate the crazy schedules? How do survive missing them so much? How did you build a relationship that worked for both of you, including consistent communication?

All tips/advice from pilot spouses are welcomed! Thanks in advance!