Cis male passing butch struggles
Lesbian/sapphic women wouldn't hmu in public kasi akala nila guy ako, but gays and even straight men often interacts with me. ðĪĢðĪ Sa mga wlw palagi ko maeencounter is bi/pan women. Siguro kasi ung mga nasa generation ko na lesbians mas prefer nila yun nakikita pa rin ung feminine presentation. (I don't think its bad ofc na may preference sila kaso nadidistort ng media butch lesbian reps or under represented talaga, like ginagawa sila substitute sa mga lalaki ganon lol kaya parang lalaki na rin tingin sakanila) While me I look like a bisexual soft guy daw. Almost looking like my dad during his 20s. May mestizo gene pa ako from my dad kaya I'm also tall and I have a wide shoulders. (bro lowkey flexed ð)
Kaya saakin often emotional attraction/connection talaga ang focus and less sa presentation, siguro bonus nalang kapag nagustuhan ako physically. I don't blame them tho. .
Not planning to change anything. My presentation is a huge fck you to patriarchy. ð I use it to protect people in public, such as pag may girls na may sumusunod sakanila, I'm always willing to pretend na kuya nila ako or bf, handang handa na makipag bugbugan anytime!! ðð, but tbh I'm very soft to people I love. ðĪ Hahahaha talagang butch lesbian agenda lang.
Not planning to date anytime soon. I'm grinding financially. Unless may partner na mag sstep up sa part na yun marunong naman po ako magluto. ð
Just wanna spread butch.. tibo.. tarantadong tomboy agenda whatever they may call it. ð I love sharing to this group.