My best friend's husband s*xually ass*ulted me.

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My best friend's husband s*xually har*ssed me.(corrected)

I (28F) went out with my best friends and one of them brought her husband (29M) with her. After namin mag mall, we went to a resto bar na with banda and DJ. We were enjoying ourselves then biglang nakita ko ung husband ni bff, nasa likod ko na, touching and smelling my hair. Yes, it was creepy but I just brushed it off. Baka lang nagkamali sya. Kasooo, hinahawakan na nya ung waist ko while dancing then going down to may as*. I was shocked pero I was acting normal kasi I'M NOT DRUNK and I don't want to cause any scene. Hindi ko ulit pinansin.. I'm scared! Then nung nag restroom ako, sinundan nya ako.. He held my hand and hugged me. WTF! Walang tao sa paligid so tinulak ko sya. Then he told me "bakit? yari ka saakin mamaya, wasak ka".. Then minura ko sya at tinulak ulit and went back to our table. Wala akong mapagsabihan sa mga friends ko but I'm shaking. Thanks nalang talaga sa alak at napakalma ako. Pero ang lala talaga nung husband ni bff. I went out para mag vape, sumunod na naman sya. Let's do it daw sa car ko. Edi gag*? Minura ko ulit sya and pushed him away. We all went home as if nothing happened.

Then, nagpunta kami ng birthday. Same group of friends, at nandun na naman si husband ni bff. We were eating then drinking again.. Wine lang naman iniinom namin. Then he sat beside me. As in pinagkasya nya yung sarili nya sa tabi namin ng wife nya. We were all chatting and playing some games, then his hands, napunta na naman sa likod ko. Then brushing my hair at inaamoy nya pa. Feeling ko napansin ng wife nya ung ginagawa nya kasi sinabi ko pa "nako, amoy usok na yang buhok ko, wag mo nang hawakan". All my friends stared so he stopped. Thank God! The trauma was too much. I even think about what he did, minsan I dream about it. :(

After that, hindi na ako nakipag kita sa kanila. I think kung makikipag kita ako sa mga bff ko is solo nalang. Unless major event na kailangan na magkakasama kami. Kasi hindi talagang pwede na hindi kasama ung husband ni bff na manyak! :)