How can I convince someone to marry me without being friends with them first?

I want a husband/boyfriend, but I don't want to talk to him or be friends with him. Is there any way I can do this. I don't want to befriend him at all, or have to make friends with someone and have it slowly turn into a relationship, I just want him to show up and instantly want to marry me without any conversations. I do not want friends, I do not want to socialize. How can I do this?