Is anyone extremely replused by the "cheapness" of their nex's thoughts and manners ?

While living with him, it was all offensive but love overrode everytime. But 2 years after leaving him, I am embarassed I dated someone so cheap. It gives me strong icks every time I think about his perceptions of women, money, life, problems etc.

I am in my ick phase of healing and my whole body feels the repulsion, followed by strong embarassment.

Edit : I am NOT referring to cheap in terms of money specifically. I mean a dirty and lewd mindset about everything.