Just lost our son

Our boy was diagnosed with achondroplasia. We were at IUGR diagnosis 2 months back and thought that it would pass. Never did we expect that the baby would have achondroplasia. This is our second. The first is normal.

Our tears are uncontrollable knowing how much of a suffering the baby would have had.

Indian here

Edit 1 : what breaks my heart is there is only 1/40000 possibility of achondroplasia and 1/20 chances of IUGR

The possibility of my baby having this was 1/800,000

How, why? We are uncontrollable