Smoking mothers

Hey ladies, I just wanted to pick your brains and get some opinions. Why do you think moms that smoke weed are so demonized compared to moms that drink wine and liquor. As a smoking mom, I step outside do what I do, then come back inside and chill, snack , and play with my child and some people acts as if that the most horrific thing ever but you have moms that carry around Stanley’s full of Tito’s and wine even at children’s events and no one bats an eye. Why is that?

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I’m seeing a lot of comments saying things along the lines of mental impairment when drinking/smoking with children. What about parents who are on prescribed medications for mental issues such as Xanax, Valium. Some might argue that those medications might have some of the effects as Marijuana ( delayed reactions, sedation). Would those type of medications give you the same uncertainty as weed?