Anyone else made miserable by holiday demands right now?

Just a vent.

I’m the only one cooking.

I’m the only one cleaning.

My husband’s been traveling and his ADHD means he’s way behind on his work and isn’t helping out with anything.

My brother will be visiting and had some behavioral issues which means I have to kind of watch him carefully, mediate with other family members, again putting all the pressure on me.

I blew up at my husband and now feel super guilty but still annoyed because he doesn’t really seem to have gotten the message.

And my 9 year old is crying and hates Christmas now. My fault. :(

Anyone else having a glorious day?