Looking for menopause specialist

53 and 3 years into menopause. I got through the hot flashes of peri ok, still get them when I’m stressed, overeat, or drink alcohol. But I feel like my body is just falling apart. The ghosts of every injury ever seem to be haunting me, plus new aches and pains, weakness, and of course the dreaded weight gain. There must be doctors specializing in menopause! I’m in NYC, so I feel like if they’re not here they’re not anywhere. Can anyone recommend a doctor or the right way to find one? Thank you!