Obgyn chart notes are about my (non)sex activity, seriously??

UPDATING: Thank you to all who've taken your time to reply. Clarifying I'm NOT upset that the Dr asked me and get how it's a facet of overall care - I'm unhappy that's the ONLY thing she focused on. My opinion is it should've been a very small part of a bigger overall conversation. Why was that really the only question?

This may take a little bit to get around to the point,but I switched OBs because the lady doc I'd been with for years got confrontational and upset with me because I made an appointment with her to discuss my vaj prolapse.How dare I?! I have a separate post about that whole thing, I kinda regret not reporting her now, but anyway, after walking out of her office (with her mean girl nurses watching), I chgd doctors.

So two women I know and trust recommended their doc, just happened they both go to the same lady dr. Figured I had a winner!

First visit and exam was last year around this time. New Lady doc was alright, nothing to write home about. I was 58 then, and she wanted to know how often my husband and I have sex. I tried to blow the question off, joked about it not being too often, (which btw is fine with me because it's pretty awful). She just kept pressing me for a number. I caved and said something like maybe once every couple of months. Hey dxon't judge.

A day or so later, I checked my MyChart, and I shit you not THAT is what she noted about my visit: that Patient states she is sexually active only every few months, as well as that I had stage two prolapse. Kinda pissed me off honestly.

A year goes by and today was my annual visit with her. Noted prolapse but my bladder is worse (wth??) Did pap, and once again here comes the sex talk. In an attempt to hopefully avoid it, I told her we are no longer having sex, which is true, and there's nothing to discuss. She wanted to know if the problem is me or him or both of us, or whether she can help. That's nice of her to ask, but in my opinion, there are far bigger issues I think we should talk about in the three minute visit I get once a year. Why aren't we discussing HRT pros and cons, menopause, bone density, heart health, etc?

I checked MyChart later on this afternoon, and sure enough there was a two sentence summary of my visit today-that included that patient isn't sexually active.

I don't get why THAT is her focus when there should be far bigger discussions about my overall health.

Please help me understand, I don't want the hassle of switching Drs yet again.