[23/M] North America - Make your new year extra silly with your very own Leftist, Neurodivergent, Nerdy, Software Engineer BF!! :3

Looking for a monogamous relationship with my future life partner!!!

We will start out as friends so there is no need for commitment, so don’t be afraid to reach out!!!

Here is a summary of who I am UwU

Appearance (`･ω･´)

Friends tell me I look like Harry Potter, and I’m very confident in my looks and I think I’m extremely cute or hot depending on how my hair looks like or if I shave!! I wear glasses, I’m 5’10, I’m 154lb (healthy BMI). In fact, one of my friend’s first impressions of me was that I looked very much like Harry Potter lol. My exes think I’m pretty attractive and cute!!

Personality (´ω｀)

Introverted, a little shy, and I prefer staying inside to engage in my hobbies unless it’s to look at cute animals like ducks, cats, and birdies.

I’m also neurodivergent, diagnosed with ADHD, and most likely high functioning autistic given family history, will see medical professional about it soon. I have diagnosed depression/anxiety for which I am currently seeing treatment and medication for.

I’m very affectionate and my love language is touch. I love cuddles, hand holding, head pats, and much more if I’m comfortable with you!!

I also love to spam my partner with wholesome memes, and I always respond very quickly, and if I don’t, I explain beforehand. I’m not a dry texter, I love to text a lot and using emoticons like “uwu”, “owo”, “:3”, etc hehe!!

I’m atheist (not the toxic Reddit style kind).

I’m pretty soft-spoken most of the time, but I will be extremely silly and say weird things, tease, and curse with people I’m familiar with.

I may be quite shy, but I am willing to order your food for you at the counter!!!

I will be in sleep calls with you and you can wake me up anytime if you’re feeling anxious because I want to make sure my partner is taken care of :3

Education Ｏ(≧▽≦)Ｏ

Computer Science degree from a prestigious university in the U.S., graduated debt-free. I really struggled in college though, in case if it’s relatable to you!!!

Hobbies & Interests ☆(>ω・)

Games, anime, programming, reading!

Some of my favorite games are: Omori, OneShot, Yakuza series, Balatro, Dead by Daylight, Fallout series (especially New Vegas), Halo: Reach, KOTOR, Ultrakill, Cyberpunk 2077, Half Life.

Some of my favorite animes are: Violet Evergarden, Neon Genesis Evangelion, FMAB, Girl’s Last Tour (very underrated anime, I’d love to watch it with you!).

I enjoy sci-fi books and leftist books! I’ve listened to an audio book about Darth Bane recently, and now I’m reading a book of U.S. history from a working class perspective.

Animals, especially cats and birds! I love cats so much I’m a catboy and I own cat ears hehe, and I’d love us to be silly and do stuff like meow at each other and do silly noises!!

I like adorable and cute furry art too. I’m kinda a furry.

Job （＞ｗ＜）

I currently work as a software engineer!!

Politics (o´▽`o)

I am a socialist, I think society should be about caring for others rather than maximizing profit especially on basic needs like groceries or housing. I love working class democracy and not democracy by billionaires or fascism. I’m also a feminist (not the transphobic kind).

Preferences (≧ω≦)

• College educated
• Touch as a love language
• 5’10 or shorter
• Healthy weight (a little over is ok)
• Feminine presenting and feminine personality
• Cisgender Women or transfem mostly, but open to feminine presenting/personality of all genders
• Introverted
• is okay with my politics, ideally someone critical of capitalism
• Loves to play games/watch anime, is nerdy
• Is silly, weird, and nerdy and loves to be themself 
• 20-25 years old

Deal breakers (ＴｗＴ。)

• Smoking tobacco/nicotine (I’m 420-friendly, but I prefer if you take edibles, I guess, since I think smoking is bad for your lungs. I take edibles every now and then but I can stop taking it for you, it’s not a big deal.)
• Dissimilar hobbies
• Anti-socialist / anti-communist
• Bigoted (antisemitic, transphobic, etc)
• Religious
• Doesn’t play games or watch anime
• Not nerdy
• Not in North America
• Asexuality or not very sexually active
• STDs
• If you already have children
• You are underage or/and in high school

Why am I posting here? (ᗒᗨᗕ)

I’ve been in a couple of relationships but haven’t found the right person for me, so I’m hoping to find my person on here!

I haven’t really found anyone that I would want to date in real life.

I’m fine with an LDR relationship in the U.S. or Canada. If LDR, we will visit each other frequently!!

My ultimate goal is to live together eventually, but I don’t care how long it takes, especially with the right person!

Because the tech market is extremely terrible right now, I might not stay in one state for too long, and I might job-hop until I get enough experience, a high enough salary, and a good work-life balance. But I’m not sure at the moment, I a just starting my career in software engineering.

Thanks for reading all that!

It was pretty long, and sorry for that. If you are interested, please send a chat request, it does not need to be very long as what I’ve written

• Your location
• Your age
• An intro of yourself
• What we have in common
• Why you are interested in me!!!

If you just say something like “you seem interesting to talk to” without explaining why, I won’t be very interested.