Unpopular opinion, apparently, but I didn't see G missing Quad

Note: this is based on what I see on the show. I haven't watched any after shows or youtubes/instalives/etc.

Trip was going well. People were cordial.

Until Quad started doing too much. EVERYONE was uncomfortable before Dr. G/ST said anything. They were uncomfortable just from the stuff Quad was saying. I understand Dr. G not wanting ST to react. She should have stayed quiet and let Quad make a fool of herself. I think people are genuinely happy for Quad because she's happy and she seems to be in love. She will has the hurt from her old relationship, which is understandable, but she is blessed in this new one and should just embrace it and enjoy it. And get therapy. Because when she said she was going to pay for the baby shower...my jaw dropped. Like her or not, ST's fertility issues are a source of hurt. So Quad poking and prodding and then saying that...it was just a lot. I don't see what Dr. G did to provoke this. At all. Which is not what I was expecting, from reading most of these comments.