Husband says we don’t have enough sex
We’re both 26 been together for 10 years Married for 5. For the entirety of our relationship the bed room has always been a “ problem “ to him. He claims we’re not intimate enough and that I’m too vanilla ( I don’t like pain hair pulling , spanking ) although he still does those things from time to time I’ll allow it so he can be happy. We range from 3-6 times a week depending on how busy or tired we are. Only times we’ve gone without doing it was when I was postpartum for our 3 kids, as soon as the Dr cleared me we would go back to 3-6 times. It’s always a weekly argument on the days we don’t do it he’ll start saying that I’m not into it , I don’t initiate I’m not freaky etc . I do admit I may be “ vanilla “ but that’s what I’m happy with. My body does not need sex I could go days without even thinking about it. We love each other a lot and we want to be together until we’re old. I just don’t know if our sex life will ever stop being a problem.
We’re both 26 been together for 10 years Married for 5. For the entirety of our relationship the bed room has always been a “ problem “ to him. He claims we’re not intimate enough and that I’m too vanilla ( I don’t like pain hair pulling , spanking ) although he still does those things from time to time I’ll allow it so he can be happy. We range from 3-6 times a week depending on how busy or tired we are. Only times we’ve gone without doing it was when I was postpartum for our 3 kids, as soon as the Dr cleared me we would go back to 3-6 times. It’s always a weekly argument on the days we don’t do it he’ll start saying that I’m not into it , I don’t initiate I’m not freaky etc . I do admit I may be “ vanilla “ but that’s what I’m happy with. My body does not need sex I could go days without even thinking about it. We love each other a lot and we want to be together until we’re old. I just don’t know if our sex life will ever stop being a problem.