I’m (f/37) contemplating divorce after an embryo transfer

Has anyone ever had to initiate a divorce during the IVF process? I recently transferred my first frozen embryo and right afterwards I felt like it was a huge mistake. My longstanding troubles in my 10 year marriage have come to a head. My emotionally and verbally abusive husband is demonstrating his narcissistic tendencies again. He yelled at me last night, threatened to break things and threatened to “ wipe the smile on my face” when I told him to stop yelling and creating a toxic environment for the embryo.

Instead of apologizing, he spent today stonewalling me and giving me dirty looks.

I feel that this is not the kind of marriage or environment I want to bring a child into the world. Can I even abort after going through everything to have a baby via IVF? My head is spinning!