Help with selling me on spider isekai

So I have been tempted to watch spider Isekai for a while. But recently female protag Isekai have left a bad taste in my mouth. Most of the ones I have seen have been focused on cute girls doing cute things or super sexualized characters there’s very little In between. And that’s not really something I’m interested. The two isekai that have “female” protags. Are kinda hard to justify. Because it’s the total fantasy knock out one. Where the whole joke is the fact a dude and his best guy friend get reincarnated and the dude ends up with a female body and a curse that his best guy friend and him will fall in love and it’s a comedy. And the other one I liked is one of my favorite isekai the slime isekai. And that’s one is partly female because it’s a guy that gets reincarnated as a slime with no gender but absorbs a female body to have a human body. But both aren’t really girls. And I’ve heard spider isekai and slime isekai are similar. But I’m worried I’m going to waste my time on the spider isekai. So could you sell me or inform me on if I should watch spider isekai.