❗ Serious ❗. Hey guys please help me give me some advice.
M24, I meet a girl on bumble a week ago. We really hit it off from starting we did whatsapp call for 5hrs on day one and had 3 virtual movie dates till now bcz she lives far. We're talking daily almost till 5am. She's really into me and I'm too and we both believe we gonna come in a relationship. She's 21 and old school Kinda girl , she's more than what i have asked for. That's why I'm investing too much in this stage. I really want things to workout with her which is already going in a good way.
But but she had a situationship about 7months ago she really liked that guy and wanted a relationship but he didn't wanted anything. She had her first kiss and intercourse with that guy. She was going through issues and anxiety before she meet that guy so he actually helped her during this time. But he disrespected her and things ended, she said after that she used to cry alot.
So today i asked her is that guy still in your insta she said yes, so i said why didn't u removed him after all this shit she was like there many peoples from bumble he's same as them. Actually she bitch about me this guy daily. so i said if he hurted you than why don't you block him, she said I'm not Gonna block him and told me that she texted him few weeks ago that if we meant to be we can be good friends. I was pissed asked why do u want to be friends with him and asked again why don't just block him. She said he helped me during my worst so I don't wanna be disrespectful and be like him. I asked her what if he ask you to meet she: I'll take you with me me: what if I'm busy. She: I'll postpone it.
Now I'm having severe trust issue, she says trust me i nvr go back to him if i wanted to that i wouldn't be spending this much time with( she genuinely shows interest in me). But I'm still doubtful. I really want her but with this noo, bcz i don't wanna get hurt. Sorry for the grammar.