Regarding virgin shaming

Do you think virgin shaming is as bad as a problem as incels make it to be?

I was raised in a purity culture environment, but even after I moved away, I have never seen virgin shaming outside of movies and tv. I am sure there are some assholes that do shame people for being virgins

By exaggerating virgin shaming aren't incels perpetuating virgin shaming?

Imo, I don't think I have seen as much virgin shaming irl as I have in incel spaces.