Any hotwives who love being “reclaimed”

On our journey (just fantasy so far) (M upper 40s/ F mid 40s), we are Close to getting on some lifestyle apps to hopefully allow Wife the opportunity to chat with guys for the first time. My only real question is whether there are any hotwives who before you got started loved the idea of your hubby reclaiming you or getting your sloppy seconds. It’s a big part of my fantasy and wife seems to get off on it too (though she remains shy to admit to some of this stuff). I’m just curious about others experiences in this regard in the beginning… and what was the underlying motivation for hotwives to share in the journey with their husbands