Hera doesn't deserve the sympathy she gets

Look, I get it—Zeus was a cheating husband . But let’s not pretend Hera actions can be justifified from zeus actions. Instead of dealing with Zeus directly, shecrashedwent full Real Housewives on the mortal/immortal victims and made everyone else’s life miserable.

Hera held a grudge against Paris and the Trojans after he chose Aphrodite as the most beautiful goddess in the infamous Judgment of Paris. She fueled the Trojan War and did everything in her power to destroy Troy over a beauty contest. she cost the lives of 1000s of people

Hera any land from providing a place to give birth to Leto, who was pregnant with Zeus’s twins, Apollo and Artemis. Leto endured immense suffering before finding a place to give birth.

Pausanias, Description of Greece 8. 3. 5 (trans. Jones) (Greek travelogue C2nd A.D.) :
"Kallisto was loved by Zeus and mated with him. When Hera detected the intrigue she turned Kallisto into a bear, and Artemis to please Hera shot the bear."

Pseudo-Apollodorus, Bibliotheca 2. 72 (trans. Aldrich) (Greek mythographer C2nd A.D.) :
"It fell to the lot of Herakles to go mad because of the jealousy of Hera. In his madness he threw into a fire his and Megara's children, as well as two belonging to Iphikles."