(46) Looking for younger guy for “traditional” long-term relationship (long post) DFW, Texas

I’m taking a leap and putting myself on Reddit. This is long, but in summary, I’m looking for a monogamous, long-term relationship built on love and respect; some might call that a “traditional” type relationship, where we both love each other as people as well as any physical attraction and intimacy we might have. I have some body pics on my profile, but will share face photos if we start to chat.

Who am I attracted to? I don’t think any of these are a “dealbreaker,” but overall things I find more attractive. - HEIGHT: I’m not too concerned with height. I’m pretty tall, and everyone I’ve been with has been shorter than me, but I don’t think I’d mind a taller guy either. - AGE: I want someone who LOOKS younger than me. I look like I’m in my 30s, so a guy who looks mid-30s or younger. - BODY: I prefer a guy who’s fit and healthy, but not really a bodybuilder or elite athlete. Maybe slim to average, twink, twunk, jock, or otters. - FACE: I like nice eyes and a cute smile. Nice lips are an added bonus. - BODY HAIR: I prefer less body hair, but average hair is fine too. I’m less attracted to super hairy guys. - FACIAL HAIR: Smooth or shaved face is nice, but some trimmed beards are good too, but not scruffy/unmanicured facial hair. - DRUGS: No illegal or illicit drugs. Moderate alcohol use is fine. - PREFERENCE: I’d prefer a vers and/or side, but pretty much anything except total bottom. I like more variety. 😉 - MASC/FEM: I generally like more masculine or average guys, less attractive to very feminine or trans. - 🍆: I don’t have much preference about size, cut, uncut, etc. - PERSONALITY: I prefer an outgoing guy who can help carry a conversation and knows how to express his feelings. - MOTIVATION: I am attracted to motivated guys, maybe a young professional or if no career yet, has some goals and is driven. I’d love to help provide some of my experiences and help you reach your goals or help when your goals might change. - RELATIONSHIP: You want a long-term, monogamous relationship based on love, trust, and respect. You may be attracted to me as an older guy, but doesn’t want a dad/son or “gifting” relationship. - HOBBIES: I like when guys have hobbies, even if it’s gaming, reading, or some obscure activity. I’d love learning about your hobbies and sharing my hobbies with you!

What about me? - I’m 6’4” and pretty fit, I work out 4-5 times per week, usually in the morning before work. - I’m 46 years old, but many people tell me I look like I’m in my 30s. - I’m pretty masculine, and people wouldn’t think I was gay. - My 🍆 is about 7.5 inches and thick, cut. - I haven’t been out very long, but know I like guys who look younger than me. I’ve never been married or had any children. - Apparently I’m a DILF (according to guys I’ve been with). However, I don’t like being called dad/daddy/sir and don’t like calling a partner son/boy. I feel like those are condescending in a relationship (but thats just me). - I have a beard, starting to gray (age will be catching up with me someday). - I’ve been on the hookup apps a bit, and although they’re fun, I’d rather find a monogamous, long-term relationship. - I want a relationship based on love, trust, and respect. I may be attracted to you as a younger guy, but I don’t want a dad/son relationship. In spite of that, I know my age does give additional perspective and wisdom that I’d love to share while helping my partner grow and meet his own goals. - Although I’m still exploring my sexuality, I love kissing, body contact, and oral. I’d probably describe myself as side/verse, but I like pleasing my partner. - I’m fairly introverted and introspective. I like talking with people I’m comfortable with, but my “social battery” runs out quickly at parties or large social events. - I don’t do well with long distance relationships, unless the other person is very extroverted and a great communicator. I prefer in person relationships because of that. - I like sharing my life experiences and insights with others. - I don’t use any drugs or alcohol, but am open to being with someone who drinks in moderation. - Activities: I love the outdoors and nature. I go hiking often and tend to enjoy all the little things along the way including flowers, insects, trees, rocks, as well as the views. I have a nature garden to attract wildlife! - I have a dog who loves everyone, but I do also like cats and pretty much any other animal. - I’m a romantic optimist – I’m sure someone is out there for me somewhere. And I hope I’m also a great fit for the right guy also! - Feel free to ask me questions about myself!