am i being dramatic?

(will try and make this brief) whilst at school, one of my closest friends introduced me to one of her closest friends and i’d say that we hit it off. i only saw her twice, but the second time we both realised we’d be going to the same university. we were really excited. although we weren’t established friends i could tell that the energy was matching and we could become friends. from my pov, i got the vibe that she felt the same as way (but ofc i cannot be 100% certain).

fast forward a couple of weeks and we’re at uni. we hang out a couple of times. first, it’s just us and she’s telling me about how she’s so happy i’m at uni with her because i’m the type of person she’d want to be friends with. she repeats this stuff when we hang out another time with her friends. now, there’s another time when we hang out and i’m telling her about this play that i’m doing. she’s super excited for me and promises that she’s going to come and see it. (this never happens).

around november time i message her to ask if she’s free to hang out today and she tells me that she’s got plans to hang out with her dad. fair enough because i did ask super last minute. but i realised that it had been mostly me asking to hang out/messaging her.

so i stopped. a month passed without us talking and she asked to hang out (we’re both back at home now). i told her i was busy and decided i don’t want to hang out with her anymore. it’s okay if you consider this petty. i get that. it just felt a bit strange for her to express so much excitement that i’m in the same city as her but she doesn’t seem to reach out when we’re both in said city. idk it just seemed kind of weird to me.