We just purchased our new home and we already regret it because of the neighbors 🙃

When you're facing our new house, the house to the left of us is apparently a little off. We found out our first night here that the guy who lives there has a PA system in his backyard. Every day at 7am, 5pm and 10pm he plays military songs that you would hear every day on base, it's so loud that we hear it through the walls. At 7am he will play the song twice to wake up the whole neighborhood, then after he will play the sounds of a rooster. So I guess we can't sleep in on our days off like we were planning.

Yesterday I was working in the backyard he decided to turn on his TV, that is also connected to his PA system in the backyard, so I had to hear loud ass commercials while I was picking up garbage.

A different neighbor came up to introduce themselves, after our introductions she pointed to PA system guy's house, told us that if we don't make a good first impression with the guy next to us we could be in danger. When I asked her what she meant, she said he's a veteran with PTSD and if we give him the wrong impression that we might be in danger.

Also thought I'd mention I was walking up to our shared fence to move some rocks and he started screaming at his dog to get inside, slammed the door shut and started screaming? Like???

I guess I just wanted to rant to you guys, we were so excited to find a home with a bigger backyard for our dogs but we've been here less than a week and he's already making us feel like we made a huge mistake. We intentionally moved to a neighborhood with an HOA to avoid this kind of thing, just really disappointed.

edit

Alright, just got home and took a look at the replies. Not going to do or say anything until we have a security system up and my husband gets a firearm. We were already in the process of getting ring cameras for our front door but we're going to order more for our backyard as well. We have small dogs so I go outside with them anyway because of coyotes. Also, we're in Arizona. Pretty sure legally they were suppose to disclose the noise.

Will be checking the comments throughout the day for more suggestions on how to handle this, hopefully it's not as bad as our neighbor made it out to be. When we first got here we didn't hear anything outside, just recently he's been playing his TV and music in the backyard.

We've honestly been so tired from the move (moved in the end of last week) that we're just now noticing how strange everything is.

Again just to be clear, he hasn't threatened us directly. We haven't spoken to him yet. I'm hoping the lady who warned us was just being dramatic, but I'll keep my guard up.

** EDIT 2**

OKAY, IT GOT WEIRDER. IT GOT WEIRDER EVERYONE. I'M OFFICIALLY WEIRDED OUT. 

I'm going to have to give you guys some backstory now, because this is just too much. 

My husband is in the military, he has one year left and then he is done. He isn't a fan of being in the military, he already has another job lined up next year. I hate the military lifestyle, hated living on base. We are both just done, I'm tired of moving all the time and always having to change jobs. SO! The end of last year we decided we're moving off base before his enlistment ends, and we've been house hunting ever since. 

It's been hard for us like everyone else, every house gets 10+ offers and we were never the highest. The house we got was not our dream home, but we were happy with it. 

We found our house at the very end of March, our realtor was actually able to show us this house before it went on the market. Told our realtor that we wanted to put in an offer, and he suggested since we were having trouble getting one of our offers accepted that we should try writing a letter to the previous owner to see if that helped. 

Wrote a letter, was honest. Husband is in the military getting ready to seperate, looking to settle down in the area and stop moving. Gave the letter to our realtor who then gave it to the sellers. Didn't hear anything for a couple of days. 

The house goes on the market on a Friday. Our realtor calls us during the weekend to let us know we're no longer the highest offer, we raise our offer. He calls us again and says that we're still not the highest, there are about 5 other offers that are higher. We decided to just let it go and move on to the next house. 

Monday rolls around and we get an unexpected call from our realtor saying that the seller accepted our offer, we were shocked, asked him what happened. He said the seller chose us because of the letter we wrote, said they got way higher offers but they wanted to help out another military family. We were extremely thankful and decided to go through with the purchase. 

After about a month of closing on the house, we finally got the keys last week. This is where it gets weird.

My husband came here by himself a few times before we moved in, there were a few conversations with the neighbors that he had that I wasn't aware of. 

He introduced himself to a neighbor that is close to our house, whenever he would try to tell her things about us she would interrupt him and say "Oh I know." She said it so many times that he finally asked her how she knew all this information about us, and she said "Oh, everyone in this neighborhood knows everything about each other. I was really close to the seller. She showed everyone on the street the letter you made, and we thought you would be a really good fit for this street." 

And then she confirmed that all 18 houses on the street were either military or cops, and that two houses were being rented out but the people who owned the homes were previous cops. 

AND THEN, she goes on to tell him that a couple of years ago someone moved in that was a drug dealer. The neighbors got rid of the drug dealer because they didn't like him being on the street. I asked my husband what he meant, and he said "I don't know. They just said they got rid of the problem." AND I'M LIKE??????? What????????

I asked him why he didn't mention this conversation to me last week and he said "I thought it was just an older woman gossiping about the neighborhood, she said she's retired so I figured she has nothing else better to do." 

So from my understanding, these people have some say so in who moves in on this street? And the reason we were able to move in with a lower offer is because my husband is military? This isn't normal, right? The other day I got a text message from someone on this street and I never gave them my phone number.