How do you stay motivated?

I’ve been looking since August and have put in offers on 3 different homes and keep losing. Just today, I asked for a showing and my realtor said the home is really popular and showing times have filled up quickly. This whole process has been so discouraging. I might even take a mental health day this afternoon. I feel like dropping out as peak buying season begins. Right now, my rent is about the same as owning a home and I have zero maintenance, quiet neighbors, and a pool and gym. How do you all stay mentally healthy in this market?