Can't lose love handles after 2 years of consistent training.

I'm 17 years old, 2 years ago my weight was 55kg now I weight 84kg, training hard 3 times a week and doing cardio for months 3-4 times a week, eating healthy, counting macro everyday, like seriously I have not eaten even snickers in past 2 years and I still have those handles, even bigger than before. Seems like the most logical explanation behind all this might be my gaming hobby, 3-8hrs playing games everyday on my computer. So my organism likes to place fat in lower area of my body, but is that true? Bonus question: why I have big chest muscles but I can't bench 90 kg's after 2 years of misery on the gym but I can do back rows with +100kg (while LYING on curved 30° bench) and do 50kg bicep curl with 2 hands? P.S my shoulders are always in pain.