Give yourself one year.

If you’re in your early days of post-break, I’ve been there.

I remember how stuck I was on my ex.

Little by little, not in days or weeks. But month by month before you know it. You will eventually.

Give it enough time and your attachement will fade. Your perspective will broaden. You’ll heal and see things differently.

You’ll realize you ALWAYS only lose the wrong people.

A year ago, my heart hurt putting up safe boundaries against my toxic ex. I was torn between my attachment to him, my weakness at resisting his breadcrumbs, the cycle I felt like I’d never get out of.

A year later, my biggest problem is having too much extra milk that I made myself some custard.

Leaving my ex was the best and hardest thing I’ve done my whole life. But now I’m the happiest I’ve ever been, genuinely.

I wish this for all of you. Just give yourself some time 🩷 you will be okay, don’t go back to someone you know is wrong. Don’t look for love from people that hurt you. Keep going forward into the unknown future. I know it’s scary at first but future you will thank you so much for it!!!

If I can do it you can too!!! Don’t judge yourself for your feelings and don’t keep track of how long it takes. Give yourself the patience and kindness and love you crave from other people. If you believe it’s possible you’ll do it 🥹✨