WARNING *especially to women* about joining 'friendly' TELEGRAM GCs

I hope this serves as a warning in joining this certain Telegram GC at your own discretion. I joined this gc a few months back for the purpose of meeting new people and making new friends. Yun naman ang sabi nung owner who invited me, to meet new people, may mga wholesome gc and gc for NSFW stuff so I joined. Little did I know na by joining that gc, I am putting myself in danger na pala. I have very little interaction sa gc since I am still observing, but I got confused why men are dming me.. First it was just a simple Hi, hello, to are you free to meet to Some wanting to send their dick pic and some wanting to have SOP. Some ask if they can fck me and saying "parang ang sarap mo ifck." When I replied na I don't do those kind of stuff, they became toxic and lash out. I am dumbfounded. I tried to reach out to the owner via dm para magsumbong pero ang sagot nya lang sakin "direct that concern to other admins, I am busy" what? I felt offended and lost. He said he's busy but I always see him active sa gc and adding new people. I don't know what to do. Mid November, I talked to this guy from the gc and he mentioned that my username and other women's username are being mentioned in a "male gc" that he's a member of. He said that the owner said "ayan si @__ inadd ko para pagsawaan nyo." "siguraduhin nyong pagsasawaan nyo yan" something like that and other horrid stuff. I was shocked. I know, I should be cautious in joining gcs. Yun siguro ang mali ko pero I never thought na I would experience this since may mga maayos naman silang sub gc. I don't know if front lang ba nila yung mga 'wholesome gc' sa mga horrible stuff na ginagawa nila. I felt objectified and violated. It was quite a traumatic experience. Kaya pls, join at your own discretion. It's the Ts & Ts gc and the owners username is a doctor from marvel movies. I don't know if I can mention the actual gc and username that's why this is all the info I can give.

I'm speaking up kase ayoko na may iba pang maging biktima. They have over 1000 members and God knows kung ilan pa ang ginaganyan nila.