Whoa , I finally understand how men become psycho exes and stalkers.

Breakups are rough especially for some men and for the longest time I always questioned what drives a men to stalk an ex or someone they cared about in general and what takes them to that level to become a phycho ex.

I always heard stories about men acting crazy, embarrassing themselves and causing a scene. I always attributed it to the fact that the man was probably already crazy or was dealing with some mental issues at the time.

but as I’m dealing with my break up, I have this fire inside of me, this overwhelming urge to just go to her house, find out what she’s up to, check her socials, find out where she’s at and who is she hanging out with. This overwhelming endless fire burning urge to talk to her, be with her, and just want to be connected and part of her life.

It’s a crazy urge and feeling that I’ve never experienced before, I strongly believe that weak men or men that simply don’t have a strong sense of self or self control, can really unravel themselves into becoming someone they never wanted to become.

They just wanted to be loved, be connected with the one who was the love of their life and to relive the great moments of the past. these emotions and this feeling is such a ferocious force that I even had to throw my phone against the wall a couple times just so I would stop having the urge to check her socials.

I don’t know why this isn’t talked about more in society, the fact that a man can be so in love and so into a woman that when it ends, he craves the past, and that love so much, that he loses his own self control and becomes someone who he doesn't even recognize

Thinking about this ferocious urge, I also kind of empathize with some men that can’t control themselves so they turn to drugs and alcohol to be able to calm that urge down, which most times it makes it even worse.

I strongly believe that when you aren’t at peace with yourself, that's when all the emotions really bubble up to the surface. That's when men need to really meditate on why you miss her so much and how the way you think can really transform you into a stalker and psycho ex

Just some food for thought, I hope all the men out there can focus this energy and make it a better version of themselves. Our exes don't deserve all the energy, time and love that we wish we could give them. We should give that to ourselves instead