what are some of your guys breakup hard truths/hot takes?

i have a couple to start:

if you’re only doing no contact in hopes of getting back together with your ex, you’re failing to understand the true point of nc.

at a certain point, sitting in your misery and waiting on someone to choose you will only keep you stuck.

checking their socials is self harm.

if you were the one that made a mistake and suddenly realized your mistake, you don’t have the luxury of having expectations when coming back into that persons life.

wondering how your ex may feel about you, or if they’ll regret their decision is what’s keeping you in a cycle.

you have to actually want to move on.

breakups are hard, we can’t be perfect all the time. these are just some truths for those willing to listen, and hopefully they resonate. feel free to add any more i may have missed!